I agree with everyone! Do not let S waste his VA loan helping W get a place in town for any reason....nada! S isn't ready to purchase a house yet anyway is he? Shouldn't he try living on his own...renting a place for awhile first anyway? He basically went from your place to the service and now back to your place....
W is not thinking very clearly if she even considered asking him to do such a thing! It's rude, it's not her place to do that!
Stop it before it's too late!
Hugs! BA
Me:43 H:48 M:24 yrs T: 26 yrs 2 kids ILYNILWYA 8-07 - MOW 9-07 H moved out 8-2-08 Back 8-18-08 Affair continues Back home but not emotionally