Jeff:

I agree with everyone! Do not let S waste his VA loan helping W get a place in town for any reason....nada! S isn't ready to purchase a house yet anyway is he? Shouldn't he try living on his own...renting a place for awhile first anyway? He basically went from your place to the service and now back to your place....

W is not thinking very clearly if she even considered asking him to do such a thing! It's rude, it's not her place to do that!

Stop it before it's too late!

Hugs!
BA


Me:43
H:48
M:24 yrs T: 26 yrs
2 kids
ILYNILWYA 8-07 - MOW 9-07
H moved out 8-2-08 Back 8-18-08
Affair continues
Back home but not emotionally