I agree with Lisa! It's hard to remember it's not about us...I know the rejection thing is hard to not take that way...but Lisa is right...it's something they are dealing with inside themselves. They state..."it's not you...it's me"...and they are right... even though it's hard to not think that it is you being rejected.
My H said something the other day....something about when he thinks of me being with someone else, it drives him crazy...he doesn't understand why...he wants me to be happy...just not with someone else...??? But he knows he is making me very unhappy right now....so go figure?!
Love never fails...but that doesn't mean you can't move on if that's what you decide to do. Only you can decide what's best for you...:)
Hugs! BA
Me:43 H:48 M:24 yrs T: 26 yrs 2 kids ILYNILWYA 8-07 - MOW 9-07 H moved out 8-2-08 Back 8-18-08 Affair continues Back home but not emotionally
