Some good advice. I know when I go dark on her she comes looking for the light switch its just hard for me trying to figure out what to do when she does.Its as she knows all she has to do mess with my head a lilttle bit and then withdraw and she knows she got me where she wants me. I had no clue I loe this women so much. This is the same woman that over 10 yrs ago tried to commit suicide over me becaue we had an argument over a pager number(Yes that long ago) she kicked me out of the house. Then found out she was wrong and i was mad and didnt come home for 10 days.What happened its like she now knows I wont do nothing wrong and wait for her on han and feet at home and she can walk all over me. Why do I know that is going on but cant change it. Its like I am not the same person no more. Was I that confident in my marriage that it hit me so hard that I can not get up and shake this and show her that this will not be tolerated no more. Not having any friends makes this really hard not too many peops I can talk to. also cut off anybody I did talk to since everyone tells me to leave her and move on.Well enough chatter but ha to get some off my chest sorry bout that. I am seriously thinking about letting her initiate all contact and leave it at that,very good advice
