Don't place ALL the blame on Mrs VH. Mr VH responded with this early today if you missed it -
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The thing with my son is kind of weird. She actually talked to me about it, with him there, after they had started to hatch the plan. What I don't know is how she approached it, or what she told him. So, I need to find out that end of it, I think, before I react, one way of the other.
Put the kabosh in this Jeff. Your S20 should not be used to support 2 healthy working parents separate a M.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.