Oh, yah, I forgot one other thing...

mom told us that the divorce was our fault. That if we had been "better kids" that my father wouldn't have left...

I'm not sure where she got the "handbook" but I hope she didn't pay too much for it!

Sage

Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.