dealing with infidelity after R

[garyjlost]

Thanks for restressing these points, Scotsman.

You said:
"You're basically saying to your wife 'you're a person of free will and I have neither the power nor inclination to control your behaviour. However, as long as you still have any contact with the OM I will not work on this marriage with you. If your situation changes and you have a change of heart, let me know. At this momment in time I am still willing to talk about restoring our marriage.'"

This really helps. Thanks.