(((S&S))). Colors are good. Will start with red...
Easy there big fella!
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
I know - no other colors until the current paint canvass is totally dry...
Then you heard correctly!
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
Ok need some QUICK advice. Cancelling hawaii is now on deck.
My comment - the whole trip requires more thought.
W - well that would require communication now wouldn't it.
I AM SICK of the communication comments from her. She accuses me of not communicating - yet she does nothing about it either. WHAT THE HECK WOULD YOU SAY?
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
I agree that it has been a while since we talked about cancelling the trip. I agree with you that it is important. I find it a little difficult to communicate as the third person in the situation.
What do you think?
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
Thinking about this a little more (no, haven't responded yet), I am not sure i like the "I find it a little difficult to communicate as the third person in the situation.".
Perhaps something more along the lines of this:
"W, I couldn't agree with you more - communication is something needed, in all areas. It is a 2 way street that neither of us seem to want to travel lately. I agree with you that it is important, and something I am very willing to work on. I believe this goes hand in hand with the "no more lies and deceit" I mentioned a couple weeks back.
It has been a while since we talked about cancelling the trip but need to soon. Something to think about."
Thoughts? Lots I want to say about actions / consequences, continued contact with OM, etc but not here I don't think.
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
No one ever has, or ever will, escape the consequences of their actions.
