Puppy's bang on - I think you will feel very empowered afterwards and you need that right now. Operating from a position of strength is always better.
Your wife needs to know that, whilst you want her back and are willing to work on all your issues, no contact is non negotiable for you and you will not enter a phoney R phase whilst she is in any contact with him.
I think it's also good for you to know and believe that you will do just great in your life without her and therefore do not have to submit to her terms all the time for fear of losing her. She needs to show you she is worth it and is serious. I think you would be doing yourself a huge disservice but not laying out and enforcing boundaries, especially the no contact one.
Keep posting..you will do great..Scotsman
Me - LBS 47yrs old Her - WAW 34yrs old DD - 10yrs old Together - 15 months Bomb - 28/07/15 "I still love you but can't deal with situation"
