Beth..I have to say, following cot's line of thinking, technically you already got MORE than you expected, because you didn't expect him to respond. IMHO, I think he was "baiting" you and you took it, a little bit, by him saying he felt alienated..remember, HE chose to leave, not you, and the person choosing to stay alienated is also him..so don't let him make you feel BADLY because you are doing ok and he is feeling some of the ramifications of his actions..

Again..just my thoughts..take the good and toss out the rest LOL ;\)

Hugs to you!!

Tawnya


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