aliens undercover: married to the pod

[BeingMe]

Our church has a girls' camp every year and we parents are asked to write a letter to our daughters to be read out at the end of the camp. I love the idea, and it always gives me pleasure affirming my D16's good qualities (and my other daughters when they were young and going on the camps). However, I think it's nice to have the moms there, and to get others to also write letters to our daughters.

I am so glad you had this experience, Hmama. I also feel for you, losing the friends you thought were so loyal and true. Maybe it is a good idea to write to them and tell them how disappointed you are in them. It's not like they have to listen to you about your H, or dog on him, but it would've been nice to have someone to hang out with, just for fun. Maybe, just a shoulder to cry on sometimes without explanation. They don't have to choose sides, but they could've just been friends with both of you with no judgments.

Take care.