GRRRR! your wife needs an attitude adjustment. Cant she just once say, oh the curtains are nice or at the very least, they are better than no curtain, or even that was a nice thing you did, Jeff?
She is so far into this mindset that I think she needs something drastic to get her out of it. She is a tough nut to crack, my friend.
I had only one VA loan myself. I did not use it for over 10 years and when I did it sure did come in handy - low down payment on no mortgage insurance required.
Oh Amy!!!!LOL, here's me thinking you'd gone soft and gentle. Don't beat about the bush sistah-tell it ike it is.
Nothing like self-serving BS to trip my trigger, naej! When it comes to mooching off your kid, I will blow a gasket everytime.
The VA Loan benefit is given to those who have served in the military. It's an option to get a government-backed housing loan and often has lower interest rates. There's much more to it but that's the gist. And it's something the vet can only use ONE TIME. How friggin DARE she ask for him to waste his on her when he's just starting out his life on his own! That just chapped my whole ass!
(((((Amy))))) I really wish you could tell me how you really feel!
I need to find up what is going on with that. S20 didn't get home last might til after I was in bed, so I didn't get a chance to talk to him. I will do my best to make sure he doesn't do something foolish!
(((((naej))))) Amy has always been a softy..... why would she change now?
(((((Donna))))) Not a positive word about the curtains. The closest thing to a positive word about the room was, "You cleaned up in here." Not even, "It looks good." She did say that the new comforter matches my new tennis shoes..... Is that a compliment?
Hmmmm.......she's talking about setting up two households, but hasn't discussed it with you? I think you probably need to raise it with her and have the conversation because I assume this is on the back of the letter, and the whole point of that was to trigger some communication between the two of you rather than between W and S20 (BTW, I think she's totally out of order if she's trying to use his money to leave).
Hope you're having a good day- I feel like I haven't spoken to you for AGES!!
Jeff, I am speecheless (doesnt happen often I know). Dont be afraid to address all issues. Really, fear is a por advisor. She sure seems comfortable to talk about "delicate" issues with S20, she is insensitive. I am with Amy. You better talk to S20 soon. K
I really need to see those shoes. Can you post a picture?
I need to find out what she was really talking about with S20.... I expect it was disguised as a way to get an address in town, where we would "seperate" for the kids, but not really. Then she wouldn't have to tell them, maybe? That's all assumptions, guesses, and complete construction on my part, at this point. Don't beat me up over it, please!
Originally Posted By: One Day
Hope you're having a good day- I feel like I haven't spoken to you for AGES!!
Because you haven't I think! I know you have been really busy, though!
(((((Kalni))))) I will talk to S20 first, I want to know what she told him. I have a feeling there are different versions of reality going around.
hey jeff... Well this is a wierd development then? The two address thing and the issue of a loan for military, that she should let him decide when he uses?! All seems a bit out of leftfield...would you talk to her about it ? (instead of/as well as talking to S20?)
Thats some nifty footwear! Al xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
