And I'm Still Learning

[cotoffgard]

Hi Beth,

I'd avoid trying to "interpret" anything from his reply. We're told to not believe anything our spouses say and only half of what they do. What was your goal when you emailed him, and was that goal met? How are you closer to your H with this email exchange? Even though you said you didn't have any, your reaction intimates that you had a few expectations, so what were they?

Those are the thoughts and questions I ask myself every time I have this compulsion to email my WAW. My goal is simple: to get ONE response from her hahaha! Sounds simple, but it's been close to 4 months incommunicado...I'll take what I can get!

Keep hope alive by letting go, Beth. The more you get sucked into his world, the harder it is to keep a clear, focused mind to effectively DB. It's really tough, but I know you have it in you! You're so much tougher than you think you are!