2008 = Crazy Year (Numb 19)

[lost_in_space]

(((Wdid)))

W is away still with D16. Not much contact by W with anybody here. I am chatting with d16 everyday, although briefly.

W still thinks that we are going, as a family, to Hawaii over Christmas. I would use the phrase "over my dead body" but these days...

I will keep my wits about me. Leave the "A/B/C" to H4H. Have to start later in the alphabet! (Kidding, or as my son always says, JK).

The fight is hard and VERY exhausting. My hats off to those who have stuck it to the end. I can understand those who at some point say "f it all". I do understand those feeling.

[Tawnya]

{{{LIS}}} Glad you are doing well..I was wondering where you ran off to

IT is sometimes exhausting mentally and physically isn't it??

Tawnya

[lost_in_space]

(((Tawyna))) I am still kicking. Relaxation is exhausting if that makes sense. How are you?

Here's the latest on the hawaii thing. Weird...

W: I would like an update re Hawaii accom as soon as possible please. Like today.

Me: Planned on it. Just need to get some details first and am waiting on those.

W: So my opinion on any decisions isn't required then???

Me: Your opinion is important - just as is mine. The condo was booked a long time ago after you said that whatever friend and I decided on accomodations would be fine. Since neither friend nor I remember the details of the condos, need to see those. Then a comparison can be made and something cancelled.

W: So then exactly what details would you be waiting for?

Me: Size, sleeps and price.

W: Then I would like a say in those.

Me: Once I get those I will let you know.
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Fyi - trip to be cancelled anyway.

[whatdidido]

Huh? I'm lost. I thought you weren't doing the trip because she wants out of the marriage and the friends that are letting you stay, don't agree with W's decision and don't want her there. Am I missing something?

[lost_in_space]

wdid you are not missing a thing. THAT IS HOW STUPID THIS IS!!!!!! Friends do not want W to go but the w won't tell my W that. I have already said we need to "pull the pin", K's (except D11) know that the trip is not likely going, yet she continues as if nothing is wrong. She is messed up.

[hopeful4her]

So why didn't you say, "Helloooo. We ain't going, remember?"

Sounded like you ARE still trying to go.

[whatdidido]

Do you really think she continues as nothing is wrong? I would guess she knows something is wrong which is why she is asking about the "decision". Are you waiting on the other wife to tell her or are you waiting to tell her later?

[lost_in_space]

Waiting to discuss in person. But honestly if I say anything it is a who cares what you say thing right now. So until other W says as well will not be seen as serious.

H4H - I would love to go if it would help - but right now it won't.

[Puppy Dog Tails]

So why didn't you say, "Helloooo. We ain't going, remember?"

Sounded like you ARE still trying to go.

Yeah, I'm lost too, Lost.

[Sugar and Spice]

Waiting to discuss in person. But honestly if I say anything it is a who cares what you say thing right now. So until other W says as well will not be seen as serious.

Any chance you can contact other W and let her know whats up and let her put the thing to rest. I'm sure they don't realize that your W is still acting as if things are status quo...

Just wanted to stop in and see what is new with you. Have a great time with your kiddos and keep your chin up.

H4H has pretty much covered most of the alphabet so we will have to asign your girls numbers or colors or something... The 1,2,3 girls. The rainbow girls.