Lan -

You have come so far in the last year (and a half). You seem to be one of the few that has reconciled and are doing the hard work to make it succeed. Congratulations.

You know, I still remember the little mantra you gave me a year ago...

My wife is gone.
I dont need my wife.
But I want my wife.

My marriage is over.
I dont need my marriage.
But I want my marriage.

That one sure helped me out a lot. Thanks.

Even though my marriage failed, I am coming out all rosey now. And I am back to having fun in bed which means a lot to me (and my second brain).