Now, I am going to give you some info and you can take it for what its worth, since i am not an attorney, nor do I play one on TV.
HOWEVER...
She cannot dictate to him the conditions under which he can see the child. He is going to have to petition the courts to order paternity, establish custody and visitation, and also to determine child support. Slapping her with an order for paternity may change her tune real freaking quick, especially since it can be included with a "temporary" order for custody and visitation.
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