yes, it's frustrating and it's sad. There are, in this group, a lot of people who should know better. A psychiatrist, a couple of pastoral care folks. I'm disappointed in them, really.


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012