yes, it's frustrating and it's sad. There are, in this group, a lot of people who should know better. A psychiatrist, a couple of pastoral care folks. I'm disappointed in them, really.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012