I'm so glad to read this hon!! it always made sad when you posted and sounded hopeless. I call it the "peace that surpasses all understanding". You are not at peace because all is fine and peachy but your peace was born among turmoil)))))))))))))))) I see he still favors his son over the girls, that's a shame.
Dont' get me started about the debt thing. I paid stbx his share of the house, enough to cover all his debts, he had savings at some point. Now MIL told me he said to her "well, the debts are racking up again"... she saw a huge engagement ring on gf and they keep buying video games, electronic gadgets and pets, i dont' think gf works. But whatever... it's his screwed up life.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.