I wouldn't mind a few notes of affimation for ME right about now! I'm sorry that folks are unable to mind their own business, or at the very least, be kind to the kids. I had to fire another good friend last week. She cornered D12 after Mass and pumped her for information. This same 'friend' showed up at the courthouse last week, ready to testify against me. Good Grief, where are you, God? As I mentioned before, the Judge has seen this tactic before and was not interested in what any of these well-wishers had to say. I'm working on my stuff. Being quiet, praying more. Resisting the urge to toss another log on this ugly fire. Hoping that one day, I'll be remembered as the one who tried to settle this mess peacefully. Meanwhile, I'm looking forward to the holidays, and the Women's retreat coming up in February at my new parish. And being done with this awful divorce. *****hugs***** Goldey