When we first got there H was looking at me all nasty and wouldn't talk to me. I did a quick prayer, and I felt led to ask him if he wanted to borrow the prayer book I had brought with me. He said no, since I want the L's to handle everything, he basically doesn't want to talk to me. I continued to be nice and friendly to him and everyone; I'll try to just ignore him politely from now on though I guess?
I think that was a very classy, and obedient (to God) thing to do, Karen, in very difficult circumstances.
I don't think your witness will go unnoticed by your husband. Certainly not by God.
I'm glad this stressful meeting is behind you now. And I bet you DID look beautiful in your purple dress!