Jeannine, Pam, Shiny, LL,

Thanks so much for the suportive words, ladies! It's silly but I actually really had to talk myself into posting my fears yesterday...not so much that I was embarrassed to be down but because I was getting all this wonderful "you're an inspiration" feedback...didn't want people checking out!

As for reading my threads....my suggestion to anyone brave enough to try is "look for the color" (right KAW???). Those are usually the posts when I'm doing my clearest DB thinking

Last night stunk...not because of any R. trouble, though. H has a serious scrape on his leg from baseball and when I got home he was in real pain...it was horrendously infected...so we spent a few hours at the emergency room. Glad to report that after a painful procedure he's on the mend...armed with bandages and ointments and antibiotics.

Positives:
1. Made it through the day/night without getting enmeshed in my fears...

2. H said that he was "a lucky man" when tucking me into bed

3. h put up the new blinds in the office...he did a terrific job! (and they look great).

Sage

Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.