so H called several times to chat yesterday- I was at work and he was off. Our conversations were very upbeat in general. I called him when I got home and once again he invited me over to his apt! As we went to bed he was the one to initiate contact- putting his leg and arm over my body. I did note that the alarm clock was set an hour before he had said he needed to be up. Usually I hate that, but now realize that it gives us an extra hour to... well anything!
Yup- I think he set it early to set aside time for us to ML! I can't tell you how relieved I am, because all I've been thinking for the past few days is that it could be someone else in his bed at this point. I really think it was devine intervention that made me do what I did... Another day may have been too late?
He is looking for intimacy- and he is looking to me! He even invited me to shower with him before I left this morning.
All I can say is that I feel incredibly lucky today. And tonight is the night I am bringing dinner over... our Thankgiving picnic. I hope to make it special, and make him feel special too.
Other things I noticed is that H had apt really clean and organized, and he was proud of going to get groceries and buy healthy food. And he made his own dinner, and packed lunch. These are huge changes for him, so I really think he is trying to improve his life. It is inspiring me to get the house organized...
Will update more later on...
Me-36 H-30 T-7yr, M-3yr DivorceBusting Saved my marriage! sep 6-08 to 12-08. Together again, things are good!
