I have been following yours too... What you read is very interesting indeed. It made me think back to what our relationship was like back when we first met (besides trying to rip his clothes off all the time ) We used to talk about our feelings, what made us who we were, our hurts and disappointments, as well as how we made eachother feel... Somewhere along the way it just turned into talking about things and actions. What did you do today? Can you do this? When should we do that?
And then we turned to others- I turned to my family and friends, he turned to other women.
Wow. It really did hit me like a bomb, and one that keeps on expanding as it goes off.
I've been willing to share everything with him, but I did take the role of trying to provide 'too much'. And I missed the one important thing. This is what I need to build with him now.
That was basically the just of my confession to him on Sunday- and now I just need to keep it going and build on it. It seems to be positive so far...
Me-36 H-30 T-7yr, M-3yr DivorceBusting Saved my marriage! sep 6-08 to 12-08. Together again, things are good!
) We used to talk about our feelings, what made us who we were, our hurts and disappointments, as well as how we made eachother feel... Somewhere along the way it just turned into talking about things and actions. What did you do today? Can you do this? When should we do that? 
