Originally Posted By: goldeylox
Hey Mama, what a wonderful gift tonight's event was for both of you! As I sat here reading about it, I felt a twinge of jealousy for my D12. I'd love for her to get notes of affirmation, especially right now!
Waiting in Joyful Hope...Goldey

It really was a great evening. It was almost a coming-of-age celebration. It was a bit of a relief to hear our girls clearly expressing the values they've been taught--and the values that have become part of them.

How about requesting some notes of affirmation as a Christmas present? Or an Advent thing? You don't need an official event, you can create it yourself. There are also a lot of really good resources out there for positive mother-daughter relationships; Dove dot com has a very positive site along these lines.


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012