Maybe I should be in piecing part 4?

[Hope4us]

Oh yes. IF I find out there's been contact and IF she's truthful with me about it, she's got one strike to make it right. If she lies about it or agrees to stop and it happens again, I'm done.

I've told her this on a number of occasions. It's the ONE thing that is non-negotiable.

I worry that I have too much emotionally invested in her PERIOD. But I'm getting there. Some days I almost HOPE she doesn't want to move. Not dealing with her when I'm out of town for work or when she's not in the house, is NICE.

I also wonder sometimes if I'm staying and trying because I truly want to make it work or if it's because I HATE divorce and what it does to families/kids, etc. I wonder if I'm staying because I made a commitment and to me, my word is everything.