Makes sense. I think you could be right when you said a number of posts ago that when we were on vacation, W forgot about all that stuff and let herself FEEL. But when she went back to work, all those things came flooding back. And also why she's so different on the weekends vs. the work week. Maybe I'm fooling myself, but maybe, just maybe, she's not in contact with OM, but everything else that triggers her is the road block. Would make sense in that she's talking about our future, etc, but there's something holding her back.
H4U, sometimes I worry that you have way too much emotionally invested in this theory. You have posted some version of this over and over and over again, and I'm concerned that if it should turn out as anything other than this, that your head and heart will not be prepared for it.
Have you thought about what your response would be, say, if she WERE still in contact with him (even inappropriate contact), but was simultaneously in love with you and trying in her own way to work herself back toward your marriage?
