Maybe I should be in piecing part 4?

[Hope4us]

Makes sense. I think you could be right when you said a number of posts ago that when we were on vacation, W forgot about all that stuff and let herself FEEL. But when she went back to work, all those things came flooding back. And also why she's so different on the weekends vs. the work week. Maybe I'm fooling myself, but maybe, just maybe, she's not in contact with OM, but everything else that triggers her is the road block. Would make sense in that she's talking about our future, etc, but there's something holding her back.

Just reinforces to me that our only chance is to move away from here and all the triggers that go with it.

We'll have the conversation. I just think it's best to wait until I know more about the move to bring it up. If I bring it up prior to that it's like I'm breaking my word that I wouldn't talk about it until she was ready.