Hey Puppy I have a thought!! Could it be the small conversations we have here and there and the flirting the other and sex with me is what she needs every now and then to satisfy her needs but she is still convinced that she dont love me no more its just hard for her to cut me off all the way.
Certainly. What YOU need to decide is, are the crumbs enough?
This is why I'm such a nazi about "no-contact." Because WITHOUT it, that "convinced" thing you wrote is almost just as certain. Just ask Sandi or WDID -- they will tell you that the OM/OW contact messes with your head, and your conviction of reality. Until your wife has ended ALL contact with her lover, she's not going to be receptive to you emotionally. Waywards tend to go by FEELINGS -- they sleep with (or find companionship with) their OM/OW, and then they sleep with (or find companionship with) their spouse, and they "compare feelings." They are looking to see if they still feel "IT" with their spouse, and when they don't, they convince themselves it's because they must have never really loved them, which is bullchit. It's just the brain chemicals messing with their head.
