My H will bite his lip and can't stand still or wants to walk away when he is uncomfortable... he does it all the time .. and won't make eye contact...
I switched the lunch to us meeting in the evening thought it would be more relaxed and I will need a drink in my hand. I really didn't want to do lunch... so we'll see... I'm not too nervous but I never thought of just recognizing his request and telling him I'll get back to you on that... I usually would answer or give my opinion....
It is going to be hard to play the "date" attitude b/c I'm really emoitonally hurt and don't feel like I even want him anymore... I"m finding it difficult to even look at him without feeling angry or sad for what he has done... I also am in that place of wanting answers from him.... I meet with my C Thursday at 1pm that is why I pushed my H back to after that so I can discuss with her some tactics...
I didn't talk to DB coach but Hope on my other thread said her coach recommended treating it like a date....
good input and I will make a list of what he might request and be prepared ...
Me: 38/H:40 M:7yrs TG: 10yrs 2Girls: 4yr & 7 month old Bomb 8/22/08 OW/EA/PA 8/23/08 with 25yr old Moved out 9/22/08
