It was a quickie because I actually got sick in the bathroom an hour before
Morning sickness, maybe? Sorry, had to tease you...hope you feel better!
lwb, you are too funny, girl!
(((((Tal)))))
I hope you're feeling better, too, and I also think having a test done to check for mold would be a really good idea. It's very possible and could explain why you and the boys have been sick so much. Better to be safe than sorry.
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
lwb..... your killing me babe!!! Its definately not that!! what's funny is I know h would say yes lets do it if i was receptive... nope, i have feelings of sometimes that it would be nice to have a girl, but no guarantees and I think I'd have another boy. we are not were we should be in our relationship, it would add tons more stress. Plus im too old
Doc, oh you are sweet. thank you. now if I could get H to say that to me..
Hi gf... thanks. Im getting better. I had an asthma attack myself mon. Night. So I got my prescription filled and I feel better!
Yesterday i ran around like a mad woman, trying to get the rest of my xmas shopping done. Got a late start so i didn't finish. The mall was empty.. this was great!!
Its been pretty quiet around here. H will be going back up to that job upstate Tomorrow.
I have my cleaning lady coming today.. wooohooo!!! Wait till she sees our mess... being sick for 4 days I didn't get much done, but that's what she's for!!
Hope all of you have a great day!!
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
Hey Tal, just wanted to stop in and give you a ((((hug)))).
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
i have feelings of sometimes that it would be nice to have a girl, but no guarantees and I think I'd have another boy.
LOL!!! That is sooo funny because that was exactly what I thought before having S4 - we already had two boys, I wanted a little girl, but knew I was probably going to end up with another boy....and voila! It came to be!
Thanks for standing by me today, Tal. You're the best!
(((((((Tal)))))))
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
nc... I hadn't realized she was the same age as me when you started having kids. I guess I just "feel" older than I am. Like about 10 years older
But really, My kids still sleep bad, and so do I for that matter, I couldn't imagine starting all over again.
Sugar.. thanks for the hugs.. I'll take as much as I can!
Lwb... It seems like yesterday I was 25...
gf... yup it only lasts for about 15 minutes then im over it. My boys are at the point where they are much more indepedent, so Going back to diapers and nightly feedings... ahhhhh no. I saw that poster post back to you, he calmed down a bit. I just don't like when people post to other people when they don't know all the circumstances, it actally pi$$es me off. and the fact that you are truly a great friend and a wonderful person, I would always be there for you!
H is gone... he's upstate. Left last night, I actually slept ok last night. this cold is still lingering. He was kinda standofish when he left, but I won't let it bother me. I don't think he wanted to go, so I will leave it at that.
9 more days til disney I hope and pray that we all have a good time and we can re-connect on this trip.
Having lunch with my VERY pregnant friend. She is a hs friend of mine, this is her Fourth.. I love her to death, but she's not the type I would tell any of my "issues" too.. she's too judgmental at times, and very high maintenance. It stinks I can talk to her, but she just wouldn't have a clue.
And my friends that is why I rely on you so much. I just wish that we all lived closer to eachother, and could go out for a tea, or drink or something. That would be so wonderful.
Well I have to do so work before I head out later.. Hope all of you have a great day.. and again.. You guys are great.
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
H came home late last night. He was so moody this morning, kept on snapping at me. ahhhhh and it continues. But all of you would have been proud, i didn't "bite", this is his problem, no mine.
All I did say that there was no reason for his rudness, that I was here to help him. He made no comment after that. Kissed me goodbye and that was that.
I know everything is a process, but it seems we have so many back slides, im going to really have to seperate myself from his moods.
When he does come home, I am going to nicely just state that we agreed to be nicer to eachother, and that I am willing to stick to it, but he has to hold up his end of the bargain.. sound ok???
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
O ok, so I hope someone is on right now. Im about to just let it all go.
First off, S6 has been sick since Thursday, he's gotten worse and i stayed up last night just watching him breath. H hasn't spoken to me in 2 days. Kept on asking him what was wrong, no answer.. very cold to me, ice cold.
So he said he has to work today, which he isn't happy about, thought he would have a break. So I made him tell me what was going on when I got home. (both S6 and S2 are on steriods now with asthma issues and also antibiotics)~ that was this moring running them to the dr., was supposed to get my hair done and had to cancel... soo...
Got home still ignoring me, finally says that he's still not getting enough from me (sexually).. he was actually counting on his hands. No granted, you all know that we've been since for the last 3 wks. so I want to say we've had sex 2 or 3 times since then. Well he said he's tired of my excuses and that he tired of doing everything... WHAT?????
I calmly said that's not true, that I contribute just as much. He says I do more for the boys than him?????? I said well they are 6 and 3.. excuse me they can't take care of themselves.
I didn't get mad, he just walked out.
I think im on my last run with this guys. His feelings are he works hard and I don't,, and im here to F* him whenever he feels like it know matter what is going on with me, and that he doesn't have to maintain any emotional connection with me.
I did tell him that he hasn't changed either and that there has to be a middle of the road here, and all hee was doing was blaming me...
I have to spend a vacation with this man in 3 days???? Im at a loss.. I don't know what to do. I could easily bag this vacation because of all the sickness, but the kids are so looking forward to it, and they are old enough where they would be really upset.
I don't know.. tell me what to do, I don't know what to do, im so distraught.
It makes me think because in his mind hes not getting what he thinks I should be giving him, that he will go elsewhere,
help me guys , im scared.
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
Sorry, had to tease you...hope you feel better!
