Quoting Padawan: Does your H know about the BB, I think my W would be upset about it at this point.
Padawan
Early on, I mentioned the BB to h (I was meeting some local DB'ers for breakfast). I haven't gone into detail about it.
There ARE times, though, when I feel as though he does know about it and has read my posts. If so, it seems to not have had a negative effect so that's all cool with me!
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.