Hi Sam
Losing 70 is a really big change for anyone.
I think it affects women more because they tend to concern personal appearance more than men.
Since she has lost the weight, she looks and feels better about herself. She now has the confident that she can show the outside world. She doesn't need to stay home and hide anymore, play video game and watch TV.
No one really knows your W changes are temporarily, only time will tell.
If the changes are not temporarily, are they bothering you?

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