you can you just need to do it differently DETACH and live your life for you, when you start doing what we say the strain wont be as bad. Stop intertwining your life and happiness around him and fooling yourself that you are detaching...becoz you are NOT.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
