well alot of the depression is actually brought on by the lack of daylite...not the holidays. Of course they dont help matters any. We suffer too. We get to see spouses playing all is well with their OW's playing house or happy couple.....but my H eluded to me it really wasnt by then, infact the shine had wore off after the 1st 3 months. I started this thread for people to come to to realize they werent alone this time of year when spouses behavior rocked the ricter scale.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest