Yes that helped, I've been wondering if we were actually to the piecing stage and have sorta been waiting to hear conformation from my W. This is one of those unrealistic expectations isn't it . I see visual confirmation of good progress, but the "need freak" in me wants more ... My "need freak" NEEDS a 2x4 once in a while.
It just seems like it would be more efficient to set the feelings aside for bit and talk about whats working and what isn't in the M.
Renewing VOWs someday would be so cool.
Does your H know about the BB, I think my W would be upset about it at this point.