Morning ladies-coffee is really good. Dentist at 9. cold here and i want to stay under covers on my day off.

Hope-thanks for the advice and I know exactly what you are saying. Good thing for us right now. can't fix the old M. I have learned you never really know where the wind will take you and there are unexpected surprises, some good and some bad, at every turn so I will just go on and whatever happens is what happens. Big 180 for me cuz i'm one of those jump in with two feet and hit your head on the side of the pool people. LOL

I didnt' say you had to stop pity party yet. You just have to get it out so you can get to the real stuff. You are so calm, trying to be so grown up about all of this. That is all. Did you shred her?

If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.