So.. you sure about this then? As your doubts have been evident in all your posts.. is this your intuition talking? You keep saying you dont want to seem pushy and want to take his views into account.. but then, this was something you kind of arranged with your ex and cleared with your H.. do you think there is a danger of it feeling like 'pressure'? Also, that once you are there, with the ex and gf and her family, your H will have to be on his best behavuour and appear like a couple with you, which again might be pressure, and not the same as perhaps if you two had gone away somewhere by yourselves?
I guess you feel that the two of you will have a good time, but are you a bit concerned that he is quite quiet on the subject and kind of letting you get on with it.. like he is not really on board with the idea? Like you said, you have asked him, but then, maybe he doesnt want a confrontation? Or to make another plan??
You know your sitch best though! He did say he was trying though didnt he, that he would give it a few months (?), so perhaps his muted response just is how he would be right now, regardless of what you had organised?
Its great that you have had no disagreements and that he suggests going off to bed together! And the bills and PC stuff, all positive signs.
Al x
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
