Hi Jeff Just to let you know I'm reading. Have no idea what direction you should be heading, so no real advice....
But I'd say if you were single and she had moved out you would be able to party / holiday / do fun stuff whenever. So you should start now. I think she needs to miss you. Do something wild - go camping for a week etc. GAL GAL GAL. Seriously between now and Christmas come up with a list of things that you are going to do in the 2009 for you so that you can have fun and meet new people. The more GAL support you can have in case she leaves the better - I absolutely promise the best thing you can do now is to make sure you have a full social life with lots of different fun / new things to look forward to.
I hope it doesnt come to a separation... but I know that the longer it drags out the less you like each other, and the more 'set' she will become that she wont consider working on the relationship. Sometimes a 'shock and awe' campaign is more effective?!?!? Not always though - you do know what's best.
I'm the GAL cheerleader. And you get a gold star for the dietary changes you've made and ten gold stars for sticking with the changes.
