Thank you so much T for your post on my thread. So helpful to have that my thoughts reflected back to me. I really like what you said about the two choice dilema - you are spot on... Dont know what the solution is but I'm clearer about my dilema! Ha ha!
Darling I know so so sososososos hard with the long distance complication of reconciling a relationship. After reading your post above I think your original plan is good - you are still being 'in control' of yourself and not NEEDING to see him.
Just to throw it out there, how would you feel going to see him and making it clear to him that you are making the trip to see him. And then seducing him?!? Mwha ha ha (evil laugh)? I think you might step it up - maybe a comment like "You look so kissable right now" (cheesy?!?) and then leave it hanging - definitely you need to be tempting and a bit dangerous and flirty. I'm thinking you need to 'invite' him back to your room (not sure if that will be physically possible) - but something to show that you want more than just friends catching up???
If you didnt have the long distance thing, then you could play it cooler longer, but I think you have to be more flirtatious and wait for him to take the bait, given how long it will be until you next see him. Suggest that you could meet in an exotic location for a weekend together etc etc??
Feel free to ignore everything I say! You do really know what's best in your situation.
