Sandi, I realize that the EA...actually two EAs (were the cause of the WAW.) W does not think she did anything wrong. I've told her differently and she does have some guilt for things she said, but she does not understand the EA impact on her. I am not convinced that a PA did not go on, but W claims not.
The MC we are using is pro-marriage and has read the DB books. I have already had IC with her. The C said that even if she told W directly what was going on, W would not believe her.
W came in from IC session tonight. She did not say much about the session. I think she will need to trust the C before she will open up and tell her anything. I think the best outcome will be that W will use the IC to talk about the M, instead of talking about it with OM.
