If she does not want to be caged, she may want to back off men for a while. Let herself breathe a little.
She must have the lowest of low self esteem. Sounds like she is allowing herself to be used by anyone interested. It is sad and definitely not sane.
You know M, I posed that very question to her last night. She doesn't think that she needs any time for herself or any introspection. She's quit counseling and gone off the meds. Her words, "I'm the happiest that I've ever been."
