MMF, Sorry I checked out for so long, I needed some real ALONE-ALONE-ALONE time. I think you know why.
Ok, this is a little humbling, but I was totally in the Band-aid mode for a while early this fall. (How self centered I was.) Fortunately, it FINALLY became obvious to me.
Newsflash to self...... Wait for the sign.
Dude, you TOTALLY don't sound self serving. In fact, judging from all the people I've ever known, you rate last in that category. I didn't know Mother Theresa.
Anyway, life is what it is, WE are what WE are, and it is admirable to STOP and take the high road when we realize that we are starting down the wrong path.
One of the ladies I dated was of the "quick attachment" type-person, and I still feel bad, but I was in no shape to continue in that vein at all!
I've met several other interesting ladies since, but I'm not ready, I'm waiting, and I'm pushing off the friends who are circling with their "friends."
My luck, when I'm ready, none of my "friends-friends" will be available! Hahahaha, whatever. It is what it is.
What a test of faith.
One last thing,
You are an inspiration to myself and others.
It matters.
Thanks.
Best,
Punkt
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These are my friends now!
But someday baby... You ain't worry my life anymore
Take away, take away what I don't need, save the good part please. Fade away, fade away.