VS~

baby steps, give her time...she's scared. she's scared of being hurt and all of this "fantasy world" being just that. and this perfect you, going back to being "the old you." Time, patience, baby steps=payoff!!!!!!!!!! \:\) You really are making some remarkable headway. Just keeping moving in the same direction. Look at how far you have come in just 2 short months!!! WOW!!!

As for my sitch, haven't heard from H since turkey day. Just unsure what to do. he's so hot and cold. Our next C appt is next tuesday. So I am waiting to see what I am waiting to see what happens over the next couple of days. If I do not hear from him in a few days, I will probably send a simple text out.

I am really wanting to bring up the atty subject with him at some point. Our atty's both go to court monthly for "case management" which I find to be insanely rediculous. I just think if we are in MC there is no real reason for atty's to be doing this; and I would like to at some point have a conversation with H about this....I'm overly flustered with my atty, she hasn't done the paperwork as I asked her to do a month ago, I have placed several phone calls to her, none of which she has returned, and I constantly get told she is "in court or preparing for trial but we will have her call you at her earliest convience!" yeah...my arss..since that was like a month ago. If I knew where this was heading, I would just switch atty, but since I don't, and don't have the cash to retain another atty...I am unsure what to do...except talk to H about some of it. arrrrrgggghhhh!!!!!

I think you are doing a fantastic job. I wish things were as good in IL as they are in TX!!! I am praying my day will be here soon!!!

((((VS)))))
Christa

H-32
Me-29
T-10years
M-4yr (10/04)
Me- WAW 1/07
I filed for D 2/07
D put on hold 5/07
H re-files for D 9/08
WOW! trying MC 10/08

"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"