Working on a friendship

[Belle]

Thanksgiving was fine. H came over Wed night so that I could give him his pumpkin pie. He had gone shopping that day and got a turkey, stuffing, cranberries all for himself. He asked how I knew he wanted pumpkin pie and I said "I know you love pumpkin pie" and I gave him hug/squeeze from the side. He then turned to me and said "Thank you" and gave me a good hug.

He wanted to chat up a storm but at one point he caught me looking at the clock - I had a lot to do to get ready to go out of town the next morning. Don't think this was good as this is something I did when we were together - always had something to else to do......

Then he called me on Thanksgiving morning when I was driving to wish me Happy Thanksgiving. He told me he had just talked to his Dad and had lied to him and said he was going to WI with me. (Still hasn't told his Dad he moved out) I told him lying isn't good and the truth shall set you free. I could tell he felt bad as he mumbled something about it just being another day......

He's into his school mode right now as he has some difficult tests coming up.

I have been in a weird mood the last few days. Haven't had the passion for fighting for our relationship. I called H on Friday after Thanksgiving to ask him how his dinner was. We chatted a bit. After we hung up, he called back again but I was checking out at the pet store, so I didn't answer. He didn't leave a messgage. Normally I would get all annoyed, but I didn't. And I didn't call him back to ask him what was up. And I didn't care. He called me then on Sunday to make sure I got home OK. It's just weird b/c I really feel like I am detaching more and more.

I haven't got my flirt on........

Are there any books on this??? I sure need one!