My h has been car shopping and if he buys a car he wasn't going to trade his car in. Now when he talked to me today he said that if he buys a car he is going to trade it in.
That is fine that he changed his mind, but when I asked what was it that changed his mind. He said his mom made some comment about the car that angered him back 3 years ago and obviously that is in his head right now.
He wasn't angry with me, but him sharing the story with me was making him angry and he said I got to go. I don't want to ruin my evening.
Hope that makes more sense. He gets these episodes going on in his head that fuel his anger and then everything is triggered from the past. H has explained this to the c. My h is stuck.
That is why I feel changes are important for making new memories. A new car for h would be nice and it forges his thinking in the present rather than the past.
The mind has no concept of time!
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
