What do you mean by he wasn't going to trade his car in now it's changed. Do you mean, he is now planning to trade-in his car? (And get a new one I guess?)
And when you asked what had changed, he honestly mentioned something from 3 years ago? I don't get why he would be angry if you said "oh, you mean from a long time ago."
can you clarify?
M 43 S14 S13 D11 D7 Divorce final: Jan 2009 Making it up as I go....