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FG, don't jump the gun.

How many times has your H said he wanted to talk and nothing happened?

Don't get yourself all worked up.

Let us know how it went, ok?


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FG don't worry. We have a tendancy to jump to conclusions. I know my h would say we'll talk and then nothing.

He doesn't say that anymore, but what they think is talk and what we think are miles apart.


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I've calmed down since. Thanks for putting me back in place! \:\)

I actually cancelled today. I didn't hear from H at all yesterday...he promised to call D the past 2 nights and hasn't...so I cancelled. She's upset, I'm upset and he doesn't get it.

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I can't believe I haven't been on my own thread in 4 days! I've been hit hard with depression and trying to overcome that. I've had seriously bad thoughts and went to church today and poured my heart to God. I asked for his forgiveness with my thoughts and actions and I hope He heard me.

I hope everyone here is doing well!

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Sorry FG that you have been dealing with depression. Can you speak with an IC? I hope you are doing ok. Thinking of you!


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Originally Posted By: FriendlyGal
I can't believe I haven't been on my own thread in 4 days! I've been hit hard with depression and trying to overcome that. I've had seriously bad thoughts and went to church today and poured my heart to God. I asked for his forgiveness with my thoughts and actions and I hope He heard me.

I hope everyone here is doing well!


HE always hears you!! And HE is always by your side. And we are here for you, too.


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You should have plenty of fresh snow by tomorrow.
Put a positive spin on that and you can make snow angels!!!


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We only have about 1-2 inches here now. I went and snowblowed the little old lady 2 houses down on Saturday. D took the dog and she made a snow angel in the driveway! I ofcourse had to take a pic of that! She wanted to make the dog make one too, but I told her not to put him on his back in all the snow. \:\)

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I kinda miss the snow. We only have it on rare occassions or you need to go up to the mountains.

Nice of you to snowblow the neighbors. How kind.


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I've been very low the past couple days, too. Hang in there.

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