Stuck, yes, but I think she is just biding her time right now. Only time will tell. I think the depression she has been going through the last few weeks may be part of the withdrawal. Hard to know for sure. She is farther away now than before.
I've actually begun to have a fuller life. I have great friends and family...and all of you guys.
Regarding the C...I've read a lot of threads here and have yet to find one that said a C (even a pro-marriage C.) helped. If anyone has had a positive outcome, please let me know.