And I'm Still Learning

[nw626]

Beth
Well said...'honesty is the best approach because it is authentic'
I think you have answered your question....
'I am constantly focused on the next step with H'
We all have a hard time to stay focus on ourselves because we love our spouses. We felt unjust because they just checked out of our M. We all hope that they can snap out of the funk quickly. After all, our spouses will do whatever they want. We can't control that. I guess we just need to keep on detaching /Let go for our own good.
It is easy to say and we all know how hard it is.

I am not sure you have read this before.
I found this from one of the thread.
It is beautifully said.

To let go does not mean to stop caring,
it means I can't do it for someone else.

To let go is not to cut myself off,
it's the realization I can't control another.

To let go is not to enable,
but allow learning from natural consequences.

To let go is to admit powerlessness, which means
the outcome is not in my hands.

To let go is not to try to change or blame another,
it's to make the most of myself.

To let go is not to care for,
but to care about.

To let go is not to fix,
but to be supportive.

To let go is not to judge,
but to allow another to be a human being.

To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes,
but to allow others to affect their destinies.

To let go is not to be protective,
it's to permit another to face reality.

To let go is not to deny,
but to accept.

To let go is not to nag, scold or argue,
but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.

To let go is not to adjust everything to my desires,
but to take each day as it comes and cherish myself in it.

To let go is not to criticize or regulate anybody,
but to try to become what I dream I can be.

To let go is not to regret the past,
but to grow and live for the future.

To let go is to fear less and love more

NW626