Don't be surprised if your wife starts getting angry at you for no apparent reason. With her OM fix gone, she'll start taking it out on you without realizing it.
That's what my W was doing, then I put my foot down and told her I was not going to be the source of her anger anymore. On the boards we talk alot about validating our S. That should happen but up to a certain point. Many boarders tend to let their S treat them like doormats and so they get away with anything.
For my W, once I explained to her that I was not the sole source of her anger and gave her space to contemplate things, she would change into the nicest person around.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
