And Beth, I would say whenever your next meeting is with your H, be honest. Don't take your rings off just for that meeting. If by that time you've taken them off, then keep them off. If you're wearing them, keep them on. I don't think it has to spark a R talk either way. If your H felt pressure the last time he saw you, when you were wearing them, he didn't say anything about it, right? Don't try to read his mind.
Me: 38 H: 41 M: 12 D12, S10 H began EA: 7/08 H moved out: 9/30/08 Bomb (sleeping with OW): 10/23/08
My story: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1638048&page=2#Post1638048